Do unto others what you want others do unto you...

It is said, "Do unto others what you want others do unto you." If you want others to respect you, respect others first. If you want others to be kind to you, be kind to others first. Charity begins with ourselves.

But, in reality, we find many people expect goodness from others, but they don't seem to be good towards others. When they have wronged others, they expect to be forgiven; but when others have wronged them, they simply want to get even. This is what we call double-standard.

Similarly, "Do not do unto others what you do not want others do unto you." If you do not like to be critised, do not critise others. If you do not like to be made fun of, do not make fun of others. If you do not like to be hurt, then do not hurt others. If you do not like to be ill-treated, do not ill-treat others.

As you read these messages, I encourage you to do some self-reflections and make some positive resolutions to treat others the same way you treat yourself.