Why is it so hard to say "I am sorry!" ?

It is usually difficult for many people, in particular those who are more senior in age or position, to say the magic words "I am sorry!" even if they had made a mistake. These words are somewhat magical because it helps to cool the boiling blood and calm the unsettling nerves. Unless you try saying them, you might not realise the positive effects these words could bring.

Most of these people are rather egoistic and tend to worry that saying sorry would make them lose face or dignity. In fact, the reverse is true. It is better to leave the ego at home or under the table, no matter how big it is. People would gradually lose respect for those who don't admit their mistakes.

The society as a whole is still rather forgiving towards those who dare to admit openly their mistakes. So, learn to use the magic words from now on! Use them when necessary. You will be surprised that people will respect you for that.