Communications in a Marriage ...

Many problems at home or at work, simple or complex, big or small, arise from miscommunications or non-communications. Communications is especially important in a marriage. But, you would be surprised how communication relationships change in a marriage as the years go by.

In the first year of marriage, the husband talks, and the wife listens. Why? The wife being submissive, listens to the husband. That is wonderful.

In the second year of marriage, the wife finds that most of the time, what the husband says does not make sense. She finds it hard to submit to him. So, she takes over the role. Now, the wife talks, and the husband listens.

In the third year of marriage, the husband could not accept the fact that she has to submit to the wife instead. He wants to talk now. But, the wife also wants to talk. So, at the end, both talk and the neighbour listens. Both continued to talk in the fourth year and the neighbour continued to listen.

Eventually, they decided to go to the court. In court, the judge talks and both of them listen.